{"id":3310,"date":"2012-09-01T13:43:08","date_gmt":"2012-09-01T13:43:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/?p=3310"},"modified":"2012-09-01T13:43:08","modified_gmt":"2012-09-01T13:43:08","slug":"gratitude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/gratitude\/","title":{"rendered":"Gratitude"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As a writer, it\u2019s easy to fall into the habit of focusing on what\u2019s missing, on the goals you fail to accomplish, and to take for granted the victories you do have.<\/p>\n<p>In my own case, I&#8217;m in the middle of a major victory. My characters of Dakota and Svetlana are making it possible for my wife and me to go to a place I\u2019ve dreamed of for over twenty years. I\u2019ve wanted to go there since I was 19 and read Hemingway\u2019s <em>A Moveable Feast<\/em>. The place is Paris.<\/p>\n<p>We leave in one week.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/Lesdeuxmagots.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-3317\" title=\"Les Deux Magots Cafe\" src=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/Lesdeuxmagots.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"819\" height=\"546\" srcset=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/Lesdeuxmagots.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/Lesdeuxmagots-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It was always a question of time and money. When we had flexible jobs that gave us the time, we didn\u2019t have the money for such a trip. When we had the money, we couldn\u2019t get the time off from work (we were too busy earning said money).<\/p>\n<p>Finally, this year, time and money came together. I write full-time, so my schedule is wide-open. Alexas works for a terrific employer\u2014Vassar College\u2014that let her take a full two weeks off. And we have the money\u2014from massive sales of <a title=\"A Real Piece of Work at Amazon.com\" href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/rvBB4t\" target=\"_blank\"><em>A Real Piece of Work<\/em><\/a> back in February and March. (Thank you, readers!)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/IMG_1875.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-3316\" title=\"Musee d'Orsay\" src=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/IMG_1875.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"819\" height=\"614\" srcset=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/IMG_1875.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/IMG_1875-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Of course we\u2019ll be seeing all of the major sights (e.g., Notre Dame, the Louvre, Versailles, etc.), but we\u2019re also going to spend a lot of time simply walking the streets and taking in the <em>real<\/em> Paris. To this end, we\u2019re staying in an apartment in the centrally located Latin Quarter.<\/p>\n<p>But this entry isn\u2019t about the specifics of our trip. It\u2019s about gratitude. My best friend helped me realize this as we drove to Saratoga the other day to play the ponies.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/Versailles_gardens.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-3320\" title=\"Versailles Gardens\" src=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/Versailles_gardens.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"819\" height=\"614\" srcset=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/Versailles_gardens.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/Versailles_gardens-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>When I complained about the recent slow sales, the difficulties of finding a new literary agent, and the rejections I\u2019ve received from magazines and literary journals for my short stories, he was quick to remind me that I am one of very few writers who has actually earned significant money from his own writing\u2014enough that my wife and I can go to Paris comfortably for two weeks (not a cheap proposition).<\/p>\n<p>He further pointed out that if I always look at what I don\u2019t get, at the goal I don\u2019t reach, I\u2019ll miss out on the many good things I do get in the present, and the trip to Paris is one of them.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/Paris_Seine_Quais_079.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-3318\" title=\"Paris Quai\" src=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/Paris_Seine_Quais_079.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"819\" height=\"614\" srcset=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/Paris_Seine_Quais_079.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/Paris_Seine_Quais_079-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So is complete freedom of time; I report to no one. So is complete freedom of subject matter; I write whatever I want to write. So are my health and Alexas\u2019s health, my family and friends, and a growing readership.<\/p>\n<p>He was right, and I\u2019m truly grateful for all of it.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/pyramid-at-louvre-museum-paris-france_1600x1200.jpgw1024h768.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-3319\" title=\"Louvre Night\" src=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/pyramid-at-louvre-museum-paris-france_1600x1200.jpgw1024h768.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"819\" height=\"614\" srcset=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/pyramid-at-louvre-museum-paris-france_1600x1200.jpgw1024h768.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/pyramid-at-louvre-museum-paris-france_1600x1200.jpgw1024h768-300x225.jpeg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I hope this will be the year that I get one of my stories into a major magazine or literary journal. Yes, I hope the Dakota Stevens Mystery Series (excuse the branding) will be picked up by a traditional publisher so I can sign copies in bookstores next December. And yes, I hope I\u2019ll return from Paris with enough material for two books and a dozen stories.<\/p>\n<p>But in the meantime, I\u2019m determined to be grateful for things like this trip, and to enjoy every moment of them.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/arc-de-triomphe.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-3321\" title=\"Arc de Triomphe\" src=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/arc-de-triomphe.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"819\" height=\"614\" srcset=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/arc-de-triomphe.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/arc-de-triomphe-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Thank you again, Dear Reader, for helping to make this trip possible.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a writer, it\u2019s easy to fall into the habit of focusing on what\u2019s missing, on the goals you fail to accomplish, and to take for granted the victories you do have. In my own case, I&#8217;m in the middle of a major victory. My characters of Dakota and Svetlana are making it possible for &#8230; <a title=\"Gratitude\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/gratitude\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about Gratitude\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16,30,7,11,12,32,13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3310","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-a-real-piece-of-work","category-chris-orcutt-books","category-personal","category-dakota-stevens-mysteries-series","category-the-rich-are-different","category-travel","category-writers"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3310","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3310"}],"version-history":[{"count":44,"href":"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3310\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3389,"href":"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3310\/revisions\/3389"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3310"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3310"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/orcutt.net\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3310"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}